(Helping Parents Create or Re-Create Happy Memories for Their Children) It can be all too easy to normalise unhealthy dynamics without realising it. Sometimes, what we call love is merely habit, and what we call commitment is really fear of change. Sharing a home with someone doesn’t automatically mean you’re in a healthy or fulfilling relationship. Even marriage, sacred as…
Do you know that your body holds deep wisdom? Every day, it sends subtle signals to guide you, a yawn that asks you to rest, a racing heart that calls for a pause, or a heavy feeling that reminds you to slow down. Recently, I was reminded of this truth in a very real way. After a late night and…
Separation and divorce can feel like standing in the middle of a storm you never saw coming. For many, it’s one of the most emotionally intense, disorienting, and life-changing experiences they will ever go through. And yet, what’s fascinating, and often overlooked, is how differently people emerge from that storm. I was reminded of this recently in the most unexpected…
Life doesn’t always unfold the way we imagined. Sometimes it brings joy and fulfilment. Other times, it delivers hard, uncomfortable truths, losses, betrayals, breakdowns, or sharp turns we never saw coming. These moments can shake the foundation of everything we thought was secure. And yet, even in those dark seasons, especially in them, there may be purpose in the pain. We…
There is a rhythm to our history, a drumbeat that has never stopped. It beats through centuries of struggle and triumph, from the stolen shores of Africa to the sugarcane fields of the Caribbean, from the cotton plantations of the Deep South to the streets where civil rights were demanded, and from the battle cries of yesterday to the boardrooms,…
Life presents us with endless choices; choices about what we see or focus on, how we react, and what meaning we attach to the events around us. We decide whether to perceive beauty or imperfection, connection or division, peace or conflict. And how we react or respond truly matters. Imagine sitting by a window in the countryside. Outside, the world…
Have you heard the tale of a donkey and its owner? A man and his expectant wife embarked on a three-day journey with their donkey, which was a mode of transport back in the day. At first, the wife rode on the donkey while her husband walked alongside them. Less than half a day into their journey, the husband overheard…
If you are in your 20s, cherish life—it’s a canvas waiting for your boldest strokes. If you are in your 30s, appreciate life—it’s a garden where hard work begins to bloom. If you are in your 40s, be grateful for each day—it’s a testament to your strength and wisdom. If you are in your 50s, be thankful for your journey—it’s…
When I asked a parent what she would like to get out of my Co-Parenting coaching session with her, she said, ‘I want a life free of conflict’. I remember saying something like, ‘that can’t be a healthy life to live’. When you hear the word “conflict,” your first thought might be, Who needs it? But the answer might surprise you:…